A Useful Tip For Moments Of Parental Crisis
by Dr Silvia Hartmann
In EmoTrance, we have the concept of the "Creative Template".
That is who a person was designed to be by the Creative Order at the moment of
conception; and then this Creative Template moves through time to its ultimate
conclusion, which is death of the physical body and transcendency of those
energy systems which are not reliant on the physical body.
The purpose of the Creative Template in EmoTrance is to have people connect with
a TRUTH about themselves that is THERE, that is really true, not an idealisation
or a fantasy; we all have a Creative Template.
People make unfortunate health goals for example, or appearance goals, personal
performance goals, that are either based on:
1. Themselves BACK in time - when they were 16 or something, or "before the
accident" which causes CHAOS when applied to a 50 year old who is actually AFTER
2. Someone who isn't them at all - that's when a red haired Xena The Warrior
Princess type girl tries to become Brittany Spears, or even worse, when a fully
grown black man tries to become Bridget Bardot when she was 18.
Clearly, in personal health, development and so on you need to make a goal that
is based on YOU at the RIGHT TIME, future orientated, forward pointing; so we
evoke the Creative Template of a person so we have something to consciously move
towards in healing or restoration.
It's a wonderful thing to find something that is so exclusively yours and STILL
so amazingly inspiring; and when we make practitioners look at the Creative
Template of their clients so they know what we mean by "Even Flow" or getting a
person's energy system to work the way the Creative Order DESIGNED IT TO WORK IN
THE FIRST PLACE (no superhuman nonsense, just as it was designed!), they burst
out into tears and are amazed at how remarkable these Creative Templates are.
There is then also an immediate DEEP, DEEP DESIRE in both the client and the
practitioner to HELP THE TEMPLATE BE MANIFEST, to do whatever we can to right
what once went wrong and get back with that, move towards that, the true Even
Flow *for that one specific, unique person*.
What does that have to do with parenting, you might ask?
Well, when I was first exploring the Creative Template, it came to pass that I
got very distressed about my kid and didn't know what to do with him, how to
help him, how to make things better, how to ensure he would have a good future.
It just so happened that in the middle of being distraught, the instruction to
the EmoTrance practitioners to "see the Creative Template" floated into my mind,
and for a split second, I did.
I DID see the kid's Creative Template.
I was completely blown away by it; totally overawed and what happened was that I
felt ashamed that I should ever have DOUBTED him, or his inherent strength, his
power, and the fact that he was living HIS OWN life here.
I got very calm right away, and I remember dedicating myself, just as we do in
EmoTrance, automatically to ASSIST this amazing being in whatever way I possibly
could. Not as a "mother" with all the disturbance that entails, but as one human
being, unconditionally, to another.
I am not kidding when I say that this experience changed my life and my
relationship with the child profoundly, and I've never looked back.
It changed *me* and in changing me, it changed him.
I've never doubted him really since, and he doesn't doubt himself nearly as much
as he did, and when he does, it really is top level stuff all kids have to deal
with in these stupid societies of ours.
I've since advised other parents in moments of freakouts to do that, to look not
at what they think they see when they see their child, but at their Creative
That is an INCREDIBLE being, not the little whiner who makes your life hell, or
some defective disapointment from the ideal little sweet child of fantasy and
That is REAL and it is right here in your life.
To just get a little taste of that is life changing.
To the child, to have a parent who SAW THAT IN THEM must be life changing also.
It MUST be.
To have your parent see YOU for what you REALLY are, just for one instant, and
that's quite enough, is the dream of all children - you've made mummy or daddy
proud, they admire you unconditionally, you don't have to prove anything
Just imagine your parents had given you that, how different so many things would
But all metaphysics aside, this is a very practical thing.
It holds the answers for the moments when you as a parent are at your wit's end,
and you don't know what you should do.
Once you've touched the Creative Template, no matter how briefly again, you DO
know. It tells you somehow.
It re-assures you and puts all things back in perspective.
And it makes you love them with all your heart, no matter what, and that, not
washing their socks or running rings around them, is what makes a great parent,
at the end of the day.
So simple, such profound results.
All parents should know this, not just EmoTrance practitioners.
Try it for yourself. Even if you can only get a brief flash of what the Creative
Template really is, it will help you be a better parent - and give you a real
tool for those moments of crisis.
Dr Silvia Hartmann
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